I'm totally on the same boat, the other day I peed and when I tried to wipe I felt like she was jammed up into my ribs so far that my lungs were deflated (34 weeks). I walked into the living room where my husband and 13 yo sister was (i have a very close family) and said I can't even wipe my own butt and they just started laughing, they laughed so hard they were crying!