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1stTimeMommySunshine

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My 1st.....advice plz
« on: June 12, 2013, 07:24:02 pm »
Alr dis will b my 1st child im only 11wks........is it wrong for me to feel a certain way about my baby father not wantin to come to my doctor appts I mean he feels as if im tryin to make them bout me wen im not i constantly tells him these appts are for the baby not i

taliciaf24

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #1 on: June 12, 2013, 07:25:56 pm »
I'm on my second baby and I could care less if my hubby came. Lol. It's natural for you to feel that way because it's your first and you want to share the experience with your partner.  :)

1stTimeMommySunshine

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2013, 07:27:38 pm »
Exactly nd congrats

knschenck

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #3 on: June 12, 2013, 07:29:21 pm »
I wanted him 2 in the beginning well he finally went 2 the last one and embarrassed me. Needless 2 say I'm good 4 the next 4 months

taliciaf24

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #4 on: June 12, 2013, 07:29:29 pm »
Ty.  You too! :)

1stTimeMommy2Be

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #5 on: June 12, 2013, 07:31:16 pm »
At first i made hubby come and he still doeshsnt missed one but honestly i could care less at.this point if he does. He pretty much just waits around anyways. The first ultrasounds were crucial to me for him to see but now i havent even had one since 22wks and wont get one till 35 im 32 right now so its whatever.

sobieearth

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #6 on: June 12, 2013, 07:31:53 pm »
tried to make him understand that you are going to the doctor to check on the baby's growth rate. Look on the internet for different examples of how to tell him that its for both of you and your baby. Good luck

1stTimeMommySunshine

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #7 on: June 12, 2013, 09:22:54 pm »
Thanxz very much ima try let yhu kno how it goes

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #8 on: June 12, 2013, 11:31:22 pm »
I harassed my bd to go with me. Then he was getting on my nerves the whole time so I'm good with him not going. I'm sure he did it on purpose.

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Re: My 1st.....advice plz
« Reply #9 on: June 13, 2013, 04:52:36 am »
Ive told mine I'm not fussed if he wants to come to antenatal apt as long as hes at the scan but he would like to be there for all of them but because of work its simply not feasible, but my partner is really excited. Maybe you should sit and talk to him he might just be scared and overwhelmed by everything men just dont like to show it. Good luck. :-)